END OF WINTER
The Spring began in September 1920 as a Lebanese immigrant family welcomed their son into the world. Although sadness and joy were all part of this life, it was filled with a love of life and family. Still in Spring he lost his mother just before his 9th birthday. He then weathered the depression and like most young men of his generation “the greatest generation” joined Uncle Sam in defending his country. He delivered marines in a small boat (LST) to all of the major battles in the Pacific. Although he did not speak much about this time, it was clear the horror of the death and destruction he saw would shape his views on war forever. During this time he lost his father.
After the war he came home opened a grocery store to follow in his father’s footsteps, but soon abandoned this effort as the big chain grocery stores of that era entered town. As he later said, he saw the handwriting on the wall when he could get the supplies for his store cheaper from the big chain than his distributor. He then went to work for an auto parts store and spent 45 years helping that business develop.
At about the same time he met the love of his life and they spent 49 years together until she died. They raised a family of six children, who learned the meaning of both discipline and love. Mom only had love, but dad showed both. Summer and fall came and his kids spread their wings and he could relax and enjoy them and the grandkids He was also proud of all his kids and their accomplishments as well as those of his 16 grand kids and 3 great grand kids. He had great love for all his family and their friends. Nobody was a stranger in his house. He expected guests to share his hospitality with him — many showed up after already having eaten, only to have him feed and water them again.
In the winter of life both him and his wife had their medical problems, but they persevered. Luckily his were physical and only slowed his movements; he was still sharp and coherent until the end of winter. Although, he only had a high school education, he was well read and could carry on a discussion on many topics including business, politics and sports with the most educated. Thus, by example, showing that education does not stop with formal schooling, but is a life long endeavor.
Monetarily he was not a rich man, indeed some would say his wealth was below average, none the less he was among the super rich when it came to the love and friendship he shared with his family and friends. All that knew him will miss him. I’m sure this world is a better place because of him. He taught us the importance of honesty, hard work, love of live and especially love of family.
The end of winter and the time to say good-by came in January 2007.